Happy Friday! Well it’s Friday, the night many people think of as date night. I ran across this article about dating frugally. Trust, I enjoy a guy who splurges on me like the next woman. But, when it comes to long-term relationships, I would want to be with someone who had his finances together. I mean, even millionaires have to watch their pennies.
Renting a favorite movie, test driving a sports car and cooking a themed meal together are suggestions that work for me. I like these ideas because they are things I wouldn’t do on my own. I rarely go to movies, drive sports cars or do serious cooking. These dates wouldn’t feel cheap to me because I would feel like I was learning something/being upgraded.
The whole browse a ritzy museum gift shop idea wouldn’t work for me. I would probably want a gift out of there. heheh.
So, do you date like a frugal? If so, what are your tips? Or, are you turned off by a date who is obviously a cheapie?
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There’s nothing cheaper and more romantic than a basket of food, a blanket and a favorite spot. If you don’t have the basket, even a paper bag will do. I’ve taken markers and decorated paper bags. It doesn’t have to be wine; I like lemonade with frozen fruit in it. Roast a chicken and make chicken salad and put it in wraps. Bring along fruit, like strawberries and grapes. And bring veggies, but instead of that ubiquitous ranch dressing, try a curry dip or a vinaigrette. Here’s the learn something new part: Call the local historical association and ask them about some obscure statues or memorials that most folks don’t visit regularly that they really should. Have fun.
I recently told the guy I’m dating that I’d really like to go out to a park, lay out on a blanket and just read a book together. Sometimes, those dates are the most memorable.
Probably appearing real cheap on the first date is not going to go over real well. Once you have been together for a while though you start feeling you wanting to conserve money for bigger things-vacations, homes, babies.
I agree with earlier posters because now that it’s getting warmer, picnics sound real good.
On the first Fridays and Saturdays of the month, museums in my city usually open up the doors and have a party. At this time you can look at the exhibits, drink wine or dance to a DJ. It’s not a bad night.
About 7 1/2 years ago I went on a date with a guy to dinner and a movie. He paid for dinner with gift certificates and I bought my own movie ticket. Whenever I tell my friends this story I get “oh my god!” and “you can’t be serious!” Well, we are getting married next week… for under $10,000 of course! There is such a thing as love in frugality!!!
Lou- you got the mojo down. you need to do some seminars for us.
Jasmine-Seems like you are trying to take it to the next step with said man. Good luck!
Chic not Cheap-Museum dating is the kewl thing to do. I bet you live in the Big Apple.
KO- Ok, can I tell you that I’m a big romantic and I love your story!!??. Congratuations on the engagement/wedding. FRUGAL LOVE!
I like a guy who doesn’t waste money trying to impress me, but I never want to feel like I’m on a cheap date either. The less you’re willing to spend, the more you should plan. Nobody wants to hear “I’m not spending…That cost too…” in the early phases.
My hubby and I do date nights….we’re both cheap dates LOL! Tonight we ate at Buffalo Wild Wings
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