September 2008 Archives

Ayyy, Mates! Happy20pirate20black Slate.com has this wicked article saying that money can buy happiness when you are young. Oh my! I can’t lie, I’ve enjoyed spending money on clothes, food, vacations, etc. However, when the bills come, it’s no fun. ARGHH!But this article says splurging can make you happy.

I think saving more would make me happy.

Does money buy happiness? Is it reckless to encourage you to spend cash to get joy?  Do you agree with the article?

BTW, today is talk like a pirate day! Have a great weekend, mateys!

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MSN has some tips to beat the airlines fees. I swear, air travel is for the elite nowadays.With the news of Continental Airlines adding a $15 fee to checked luggage, these tips are right on time.

Does Greyhound sound appealing to you? Are you traveling for the holidays? What are your tips to beat the fee frenzy?

Jeez. I know I’m like most of you and captivated by the banking industry crisis.  Stocks are spiraling and people are wondering, what does this all mean to me?

I found this article online about some things people should watch about the Wall Street crisis.

Here’s the cut and paste of the Q&A:

Q: What does all this Wall Street volatility mean to me?

A:
If you have a 401(k), or shield some of your income from taxation
through an IRA or a lot of your retirement savings are in stocks,
you’ve already seen a sharp drop in value. The Dow Jones industrial
average is on pace for one of its worst years ever, but even if you’ve
parked your cash in a bank, today’s rising inflation is eroding its
value.

Q: Is this like 1929, when the stock market’s crash led to widespread bank failures and the Great Depression?

A:
No. The intervention so far by the Federal Reserve and the Treasury,
the existence of federal deposit insurance for national bank customer
accounts and the willingness of Congress and the president to fight the
downturn with fiscal policy all underscore that there are cushions in
place that didn’t exist 80 years ago. Still, today’s financial turmoil
could spread, and the economy could suffer more before stability
returns.

Q: Will the collapse of Lehman Brothers make things worse?

A:
It could, or it could make things better. The weekend meetings between
top federal regulators and senior executives of Wall Street firms
resulted in the surprise takeover of Merrill Lynch by Bank of America
and a lack of suitors for Lehman. Some analysts feared a Great
Depression-type of financial-market meltdown Monday morning, but
markets were orderly, not panicked, as news of the events sank in.

With
the government-brokered sale of investment bank Bear Stearns in March,
Bank of America’s absorbing of Merrill Lynch and the bankruptcy filing
by Lehman, Wall Street’s weakest players have been pushed off the field.

Goldman
Sachs, Morgan Stanley and JP Morgan remain the biggest traditional
investment banks, and Merrill is expected to keep operating under its
own name. The consolidation in investment banking has taken most
insolvency concerns off the table, and over a longer horizon, this
could point toward a return to stability.

Q: What about the shorter horizon?

A:
The chief executive of Bank of America, Kenneth Lewis, said Monday that
he didn’t see the clouds parting for his industry until 2010. Banks
that still have exposure to the complex mortgage bonds that are at the
heart of the crisis continue to get hammered. That includes Wachovia of
Charlotte, N.C., and Swiss giant UBS.

This
financial crisis is still rooted in bad mortgages that were packaged
into bonds and sold to investors. As long as home prices keep falling,
investment and commercial banks that own vast piles of those bonds will
keep taking write-downs and their bleeding will continue.

Q: How do these banking-sector problems affect me?

A:
Problems in the banking sector spill into the broader economy. As these
complex Wall Street investments sour, banks need to keep more capital
on hand to assure investors that they can weather any future losses
from loan portfolios. That means banks are playing defense.

If
you want a business loan, car loan, home loan, student loan or
virtually any other kind of loan, they’re hesitant to lend, lest they
wind up with more bad loans. With lending drying up, auto dealers are
sitting with inventory they can’t move and real-estate agents are
showing homes they can’t sell. The economy is slowing as credit is
squeezed.

The
crisis feeds on itself. As banks and corporations are perceived to be
short of capital and their stock prices fall, their need to raise
capital grows even as lenders are defensive. That forces them to sell
assets at low prices, and it becomes a vicious circle. That’s what
insurance and finance giant American International Group now faces.

Q: Given all these risks, why isn’t the government bailing out Lehman Brothers?

A:
Bailouts are in the eye of the beholder. The Treasury Department and
Federal Reserve determined that Lehman’s problems had been well
publicized since at least spring, other financial players had made
adjustments to that and Lehman’s failure thus didn’t pose a risk of
contaminating the broader global financial system the way the sudden
failure of Bear Stearns would have if the feds hadn’t intervened. But
make no mistake, a bailout of Wall Street has been under way since last
March, and deepened this weekend.

What
the Federal Reserve began in March and expanded Sunday is the practice
of taking all kinds of collateral in exchange for short-term emergency
loans to investment banks. Previously, investment banks had never
enjoyed this sort of borrowing because they aren’t regulated the same
way commercial banks are. The Fed now accepts as collateral a wide
range of debt, securities and even the controversial mortgage bonds
issued by the private sector and by Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac. The Fed
also is now lending to financial institutions that it doesn’t regulate.

What do you think?

The New York Times ran this article recently on how it’s beneficial to find your financial soulmate. It’s the key to wedded bliss. One of the experts in the article says that you and your spouse should sit down once a week and talk about money.

From the article:

Today, while most of us marry for romantic reasons, marriage at its core is
still a financial union. So much of what we want — or don’t want — out of life
boils down to dollars and cents, whether it’s how hard we choose to work, how
much we consume or how much we save. For some people, it’s working 80-hour weeks
to finance a third home and country club membership; for others, it means
cutting back on office hours to spend more time with the family.

I found this article very interesting. Money has a way of shaping everything in our lives. I cut my travel drastically this year because I’m doing the frugalista thing. My bank account is thanking me for it! If I were in relationship with someone who valued traveling, I’m sure he and I would be butting heads right now.  How many people remember their parents having beef over money? I’m sure quite a few do, especially if their parents are divorced.

Is marriage a financial institution? Should money trump love?  Can you have romance without stable finance? Do you and your spouse discuss financial goals often? If you are single, like me, how much do you want to know about a mate’s finances before you take him/her seriously?

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Thanks Shelley!

Tightwad How far would you go to stretch your dollars? This woman rides a horse to work. For real! It’s deep out there. I went a whole month without getting my hair or nails done. I didn’t eat out, either. I saved $400. Now, I had a car with a milky finish because I didn’t pay to get it washed, but it was worth it. I lost four pounds from eating my home-cooked meals! Eating out is bad for your health, I swear.

What do you think about the woman riding a horse to her retail job? What is the most extreme thing you’ve done to save money? Share with me!

A_iverson Allen Iverson cut the price on his 14,000-square-foot mansion in Pennsylvania, according to this Wall Street Journal article. Iverson paid $5 million for the house in 2003, records show, and listed it for $6.3 million; he’s now asking $4 million.

Poor Iverson. All that house and he has to sell it for $1 million less than what he paid for it. He’s prone to home trouble. He bought a home in Atlanta and ended up suing the builder for alleged shoddy construction. At least he isn’t in the same position that ex-NBA buddy, Latrell Sprewel, was in a few months back. Foreclosure proceedings are no fun, I’m sure.

In case you want to buy it, here’s some info from The Luxist blog:

The six-bedroom home is on four acres that include a pool house, stream and waterfall. The chateau-style home on Chateau Lane has four levels including a great room with floor-to-ceiling Palladian windows. The master suite has his and hers marble bathrooms, a coffee bar, media area and a veranda overlooking the grounds. There are four additional en-suite bedrooms and a separate guest quarters with a bedroom, living room and kitchenette. The entertainment level has a 12-seat movie theater, billiard room, and a lounge with a custom wood carved bar accommodating 200+ wine bottles.

Do you think the athletes get suckered into paying too much for their homes? Do you think Iverson can afford the $1 million loss? Do you care? Is he overpaid?

Thanks PJD for the tip!

Ncbw20logo The National Coalition of 100 Black Women Inc., Greater Miami Chapter, will hold a Women’s Empowerment Conference 8 a.m. Sept. 13 at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino, 1 Seminole Way in Hollywood. Guess who is going to be a guest moderator? ME! Yay! I can’t wait. I’m going to moderate a panel, Dollars and Sense.

The conference is designed for women who want to take their career to the next level, eliminating clutter that may keep them from getting ahead. It’s going to be a day full of girl power! That’s right up my alley.

The National Coalition of 100 Black Women, Inc. (NCBW) is a charitable organization for socially conscious women committed to the personal and professional development of women.

Registration is $45 for adults, $30 for students. Advance purchase is required. Cost includes a continental breakfast & lunch. For more information call 1-800-658-1292 or e-mail info@ncbw100miami.org. Registration also is available at www.ncbw100miami.org.

I hope you can make it! Do you belong to any professional groups? Have you ever moderated before? Do you have any public speaking tips?   

Love
Happy Monday! We have part two of the Men, Women and Money series. Our favorite website owner, Tasha of DontDateHimGirl.com, is back with some tips on how to deal with your money and relationships in this weak economy. Indeed, it’s one thing to frugalize alone, but when you’re in a relationship, you have to consider your partner. This is not Tasha’s first appearance on The Frugalista Files. Let’s just say that her last visit was spirited! Here’s to Love and Happiness!

 

How to Recession Proof Your Love Life

1. Show each other the money  "In
romantic relationships, communication is key," said Tasha Cunningham, a
leading dating expert and creator of DontDateHimGirl.com. "Talk about
your current financial situation with your significant other. Painting
a realistic picture and giving your significant other a clear picture
of where you are financially will set the stage for you both to work
together to recession-proof your relationship."

 

2. Share the pain  Talk
to your significant other about any concerns, fears or thoughts you
might have about your finances. Having an open and honest discussion
about how the recession is affecting your lives is a way to bring you
both closer in a time of adversity.

 

3. Give up the goods  "Cut
back on dinners out and cook together at home instead. Figure out where
in your budget you both can cut. If you cut your spending together,
it’s a lot less painful and actually can bring you both closer
together," Cunningham said.

 

4. Go date-free and still have fun "Plan
dates with your sweetheart that don’t cost a thing. There are tons of
fabulous things you can do together for free," said Sonia Torretto, a
DontDateHimGirl.com contributor and author of the book Men Should Come With Warning Labels.
Torretto suggests taking a bath with lots of bubbles together and then
give each other foot massages or packing a little picnic or snack and
watching the sunrise together after work.

 

5. Don’t fight over money  A recession can put a choke hold on anyone’s finances. The worst
thing you can do is fight with each other over money. Instead,
brainstorm with each and come up with a plan to save money.

 

6. Don’t hide money from your partner  "Hiding
assets or debt from your partner or keeping a secret bank account is
financial infidelity," Cunningham said. "And it comes with dire
consequences to a relationship. Be honest with your partner about both
the money and the debt you have."

 

7. Book a lavish vacation  Make a goal together that you plan to achieve once the hard times are
over. For instance, when the recession is a thing of the past, make a
commitment to jet off to Jamaica for a weekend. "When you do this," Cunningham said, "You’ll both have something to look forward to and work toward."

 

8. Challenge each other to save
Make saving fun by challenging each other to come up with new ways to
keep money in your pockets instead of spending it. The winner gets a
prize from the losing partner.

 

9. Do things for a dollar  "Check out a dollar movie theater," said Torretto, "Or hit a dollar store together for fun."

 

10. Retrain your brains
Cutting back on the things you both love isn’t easy. But both
Cunningham and Torretto agree, if you make a pact and stick to it, it’s
going to make your relationship grow!

 

Gender The Frugalista Files is doing a two-part series on Men, Women and Money. The second installment is coming on Monday.

I’ve always wondered if men and women view money differently. Well, a new study from investment house Charles Schwab has some interesting findings:

*Fifty-one percent of men, compared to 41 percent of women, say they are actively prepared for retirement

* Women worry more than men about supporting their parents financially, with 12 percent saying it is a serious concern versus 7 percent of men

* Men, however, worry more than women about supporting their siblings financially, with 29 percent of men saying they are concerned about supporting siblings in retirement versus 25 percent of women.

I think this survey pretty much nailed it. I know that I am preparing for retirement, but I have to get more aggressive. I know that I most certainly would worry about making sure my mother is supported financially.  And I NEVER worry about supporting my brother. Heck, he gives me nice birthday gifts. I’m not giving that up! I like big bro hook ups. :)

Do men and women think differently about cash? If they do, in what ways? What have you noticed?  Stay tuned for Monday. We will talk about romance and finance. :)